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Third Grade is Time to Sink or Swim.... Which Will it Be?

Count Raoul gets fiesty again. This time it's about third grade. Kids need our help and now is the time.


This is a call to arms. Our children are drowning and we are looking back towards the pier hoping the life guard gets off his break soon. Today in Georgia--heck, in Athens--there are third grade children that cannot read well enough to even take an achievement test, much less pass it. 

What’s next year going to be like when they are held back, or worse, passed along to fourth and fall further behind? 

What you see on the sidewalks and playgrounds today, the nine-and ten-year-old children with big grins and loud voices, are either the next policeman or the next policeman’s perpetrator. The absolutely critical time to make this child one or the other is now. Before Christmas. Before it’s too late.

Third grade is when students go from learning to read to reading to learn. Think about that. For the first time, they are asked to read a few pages of American history, understand it and then read, understand and respond to a question about what they just read. This is a leap similar to a bullfighter moving from battlin’ a wheelbarrow to facing ole Ferdinand….after he had been stung by the bee. It’s sink or swim.

Too many of us are satisfied with doing the best we can for our own family. And honestly, the readers of Patch appear to be well-educated and likely deliver high achievers out into our only-the-strong-survive world. I feel that today, this is not the end of our responsibility!  It is so tempting to fall back on the throw-away excuses of single family homes and lack of parental involvement, etc., to explain why the less fortunate in our society are suffering so. Believe me, I’d like to jerk a knot into most of the parents I see in Walmart, too. But feelin’ smug and self-righteous does not a good human make. I expect that many of us, myself for sure, feel guilty that we turn our heads at this painful reality. Let’s try to help these strangers if they do not have the tools to help themselves.

Want to blame the teachers, principals or the Superintendent? Please don’t. A few may be worthy of our scorn, but most are truly dedicated to their profession. My dear friend Jane is exhausted. She teaches third grade in another district. Her students are identified as slow learners and the effort she puts in is above the call.  Can’t someone help her by at least making sure her young pupils can read? 

Today, right now, there are well over 1,100 third grade students in public school in
Athens. Many of them… ten percent, twenty percent, pick a number. Many of them will this month put their heads on their desk and say quietly to themselves that they ‘don’t get it’ and feel a sense of hopelessness. We can stop that. 

I truly feels that the best way to improve the quality of all our lives is to improve the life of the least amongst us.  We, the middle class, the folks who know how to read, can make a better world for our children and grandchildren by reducing the chances their world will be filled with uneducated, underemployed wards of the state.

I encourage you to volunteer; it’ll make you feel ten feet tall. Call your child’s school and ask if there are ways you can help other kids learn to read better.  Become a CASA Volunteer and take a huge leap towards getting a child the help they need. When you do it, be prepared to feel like a slug when you let your obligations slip and to feel like an eagle when you stay an hour longer than you promised.  How did something that helps others become so enjoyable in itself?

Earlier this fall I was gratified to receive comments about our ‘best things.' Today, take a minute and share on this space where you and your neighbors might give time and effort to bring the next kid along. A quick Internet search shows a recent book drive by a local church and don’t be afraid to check out the Athens-Clarke County Guide, where numerous reading assistance programs are listed.

Don’t just watch for the life guard…. Throw out the line yourself.

Rebecca McCarthy (Editor) November 29, 2011 at 02:13 pm
Count, you have shamed me into volunteering to be a mentor for a child in the CC School System. It's a wonderful program, and I should have been doing it all along. Kandy Duke, one of Patch's contributors, has been involved for years. Thanks for reminding me we are all in this together.
Ryan Griffin November 29, 2011 at 03:27 pm
Count, this was a fantastic article that needed to be written. I worked in the Clarke County Alternative School before we privatized the program. We had so few mentors there and those kids needed them desperately. I could only think of how their paths might have been altered if someone would have taken the time to mentor them earlier on. I am a grad student in Early Childhood Ed. and you nailed it about third grade. Thank you for writing this. You are reminding me to get back on the horse and make time for a special young person in my life as well. Also, not all single parent homes are lacking; I can think of 5 off the top of my head that amaze me. Even though those parents go above and beyond, I wish there were more men that volunteered, even an hour a week, to mentor sports, hunting, or academic time. Young men need positive male role models helping them to pursue positive interests.
Liza Baril Jackson November 29, 2011 at 03:55 pm
How wonderful to read such passion for the less fortunate in our community instead of blame! Thankyou for your words and I hope this prompts many more people to get involved with the disadvantaged youth and families of our community in some way, they need more people in their lives who really care. Personally I am very active in my church's youth group by mentoring, and chaperoning the teenagers and the community service projects we do together like Our Daily Bread. Helping children learn how to read and volunteering at schools is an excellent way to make children feel they are valued. You can also get involved in local sports leagues, teen matters, or behind the scenes with programs like Food 2 Kids. As a former foster child myself I have a heart for the teenagers. Knowing the difficulty of aging out of the system and having no one to teach me those valuable life skills, I actually have considered volunteering for CASA and hope to make that a reality in the very near future.
Liza Baril Jackson November 29, 2011 at 03:55 pm
Probably the most simple way to get involved is just to pay attention to your child's (if you are a parent) own classmates and ask your children questions about them. If you your child shares a need that another child has or something that is bothering another child it is a window into helping them. You can just share the info with the teacher, invite the family to a playdate, or or simply give your child tips on how to be a friend to that child. There have been numerous times that I was able to anonymously fulfill the need of a child, be it speaking up about bullying, abuse, clothes, food, or difficulty with something they are learning just through speaking with my kids about their classmates and teaching my children how to have their eyes open to others around them. Thanks again for this great article!!
Count Raoul November 29, 2011 at 06:03 pm
Wonderful Rebecca! Lead by example.
Count Raoul November 29, 2011 at 06:07 pm
Liza, you too see the difference some caring can make. I have been a CASA volunteer in Fulton County for three years and am so glad to have done so. As you probably know, it's not a Hallmark Moment type of experience. Little things that mean nothing to us who are fortunate tend to resonate deeply with a less fortunate child. Clarke has a great CASA program.
Count Raoul November 29, 2011 at 06:08 pm
Ryan, your comments are very inspiring. Thanks for the good work.
Liza Baril Jackson November 29, 2011 at 06:14 pm
I'm so glad to have your feedback on the program, definitely makes me more resolved to do it. Yes, just the smallest of gestures mean so much. I often have wondered how no one in all my years of school seemed to notice how I was suffering and it is my wish that no child should ever have to feel that way!
woody cole November 29, 2011 at 07:44 pm
Count , You know the "Read to learn" concept is something that I need to refresh !!! My old Army friend (90 yrs.) says that reading is one of the best things that he has ever learned to do !!! I will help !!! Woody
Lisa Miller November 29, 2011 at 09:39 pm
Count, I enjoyed reading your insightful message. I am a teacher myself and I completely agree with you 100%. There are so many children out there that need our help. In the past few years I was a CASA and I worked at the Boys and Girls Club on 4th street in Athens. I believe that giving back is one of the BEST things that we can do as citizens. I leave you with my favorite quote.
"The purpose of life is to discover your gift. The meaning of life is to give your gift away." -David Viscott
Rebecca McCarthy (Editor) November 29, 2011 at 11:07 pm
Lisa, I love that quote. Thanks.
Kiley Hodgson November 30, 2011 at 05:04 pm
I'm ready to help too! Lisa, got any ideas? I will search the internet too for some options. Thanks Count.
Meg Dure November 30, 2011 at 08:22 pm
I have been pondering the powerful message you brought to us this week, Count, in your blog. There are those of us who haven't the freedom to spend in volunteering time. I am one of those. However, I am an ardent financial supporter of the Athens Literacy Council and marvel at the help they give to those striving to better themselves through learning to read and improve their education. When time-to-share is sparse, donations of money can be the substitute. Lisa's quote is profoundly moving.
Count Raoul December 1, 2011 at 12:06 am
Thanks Meg. I'm very encouraged by the acceptance of this message. It really is a win/win when we donate or volunteer. It can feel great!
Robin Arnold Smith December 1, 2011 at 01:40 am
The Count brings to light a concern of mine for years: children who get lost in the school system, unable to keep up and a lack of funds for paid workers to help them. I always had the excuse of raising my own and being busy at their schools, but that excuse is no more and he has inspired me to volunteer at an elementary school. Thank you, Count, for illuminating a very important need in our communities.

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