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Over-Sharing Parents, Beware

Sites mock parents who share too much information about their kids on Facebook.

It's super exciting that your little toddler piddled in the potty for the first time and you want to share photographic evidence of the moment with all of your friends on Facebook. Well, you might want to reconsider before you hit the "share" button. 

There are a slew of websites these days dedicated to informing over-sharing parents that their childless friends are over reading about their kid's crap, literally. Take for instance, the blog ST*U, Parents, a submission-based "public service" blog that pokes fun at parents whose Facebook statuses have been hijacked with inane updates about their children.

The author of the site, known simply as "B," created the blog in 2009 in response to annoying parental over-share posts that popped up in her own Facebook feed. The formula is pretty simple; people anonymously send B screenshots of their friend's absurd updates, she edits the image to remove any identifying marks, and then unleashes snarky commentary under each post.

The blog is a smashing success and covers everything from "Woe is Mom" submissions, where moms use Facebook as a platform to complain to "Mommyjacking" which Urban Dictionary defines as the moment "when a person's conversation/comments/Facebook status is followed up with something about their friend's children, when it has nothing to do with the conversation."

Although it may sound mean spirited, B insists that it's really meant to be all in good fun. "I think my site mocks the worst of the worst - pictures of poop, or parents who just don't know how to edit themselves when describing anything parenting-related," B declared "I would never begrudge a friend posting about her child taking his first steps, for instance, but maybe if she posted 300 pictures and 17 videos, I would consider that over-share."

Another site that reflects just how fed up people have grown with infant-laden Facebook updates is UnBaby.me, a new Google Chrome extension created by Pete Marquis, Chris Baker and Yvonne Cheng that uses keywords to permanently swap out pictures of babies on your newsfeed with photos of bacon or anything of your choosing. For the most part, UnBaby.me has been well received and in its first week it had already gotten 70,000 "likes" on Facebook and almost 30,000 users.

Critics argue that the popularity of these sites reflect an "anti-parent" message that begrudges happy moms and dads from sharing the most precious moments of their little one's lives. B assures us all that this is simply not the case.

"It's honestly not meant to be mean-spirited. It's meant to be tongue-in-cheek, funny, and maybe a little pointed in its critique of the way some parents use social media," B said. She also feels that even though her site focuses on parents, everyone can be guilty of over-sharing sometimes, not just parents.

"However, I can promise that no one will ever see a picture of poop on my page, which is more than the parents featured on my site can say."

Are you guilty of over-sharing about your kids on Facebook? Do you find these sites offensive or funny? Please share your thoughts and experiences in the comments.

Racer X August 23, 2012 at 12:23 pm
Or, you could stay off Facebook and get a real life. Not being on Facebook gives you time to exercise, clean house, do laundry, mow the lawn or even, wait for it, do your job :-)
Rebecca McCarthy (Editor) August 23, 2012 at 01:07 pm
Hi, Mike,
Being on Facebook IS part of my job. Everyone should be so lucky. Believe me, with six year old twins, a fulltime job, a civic and church life, my own interests, exercise and houseworkI actually do have a real life. As do 98 percent of those on Facebook. Thanks for sharing, and have a wonderful day.
Space Ship August 23, 2012 at 02:01 pm
Right there with you Mike!
Steph August 23, 2012 at 06:36 pm
I agree with Mike 100%
Larry Reid August 23, 2012 at 06:49 pm
I agree with Mike as well. Rebecca, you obviously had your feelings hurt by Mike's comments. Hit close to home (so to speak)? Where do you get your 98 percent from? More like facebook people Spend 98% of their lives yapping on facebook.
Jeffrey Allen August 23, 2012 at 06:59 pm
I don't mind the baby stories so much. But if there was a site called "Unclownme.com" I would sign up. Bacon pics are waaaay better than clowns.
Rebecca McCarthy (Editor) August 23, 2012 at 07:10 pm
It's impossible for someone I don't know, and who knows little to nothing about me, to hurt my feelings. But thanks for asking. When I mentioned 98 percent, I'm speaking of my FB "friends." Judging from their posts, I would say they are doing many more things besides posting on Facebook.
Leigh Hewett August 23, 2012 at 07:26 pm
Clowns are strange and mysterious people beneath all that make up. You need to invent UnClownme.com and fast!
Leigh Hewett August 23, 2012 at 07:29 pm
Mike,
Then how would we fulfill our narcissistic need for validation? Are you suggesting that we should actually interact with people face to face? That sounds scary.
Leigh Hewett August 23, 2012 at 07:30 pm
It's pretty hilarious, right? B is a friend of mine and as you hit the end of the archives you'll see that one of my posts was actually her very first entry. I wasn't sure if I should've been flattered or offended by that! In the end, I decided that I can laugh at myself and I'm pretty proud to be featured on there.
Leigh Hewett August 23, 2012 at 07:31 pm
Oh, re-sharing. What a dangerous and powerful concept. Hmmmm...makes me think twice about what I post.
Mitch August 23, 2012 at 07:34 pm
As a professional clown I am really offended by that. Go ahead and honk my nose and step on my big red shoe while your at it!
Wallflower August 23, 2012 at 07:56 pm
And here you are, Larry, yapping on the internet. LOL
Dawn August 23, 2012 at 09:19 pm
I share what I want to share. If people don't want to read it, they are welcome to unfriend. If others share more than I want to read, I can hide them or unfriend them or just ignore those posts. Seems pretty easy to me!
Racer X August 24, 2012 at 12:20 am
Rebecca- I am not saying Facebook is a bad thing in moderation but too many people are obsessed with it. When people are on Facebook, they are sitting on their butts, often eating M&Ms or cookies. If you want a more accurate way to use your 98% figure how about this: 98% of people who spend more than an hour each day on Facebook likely have large butts.
We can have a show of hands. If you are over 25, spend more than an hour on Facebook each day and don't have a fat butt, please raise your hand.
Rebecca McCarthy (Editor) August 24, 2012 at 12:42 am
Mike, What a great idea! and then women will start asking, "Does this post make my butt look fat?"
Racer X August 24, 2012 at 12:46 am
I'm just sayin'.
Racer X August 24, 2012 at 12:47 am
Crickets.
Risa Haynes August 24, 2012 at 05:00 am
I have to agree with Mike on this one. It's something I question pretty much daily. Every minute I spend on facebook (and they add up fast) is a moment away from my real authentic life. Five years ago I didn't have a facebook account and I had like 10 REAL friends. Social media sites, blogs, etc have given most of us a voice. Unfortunately, if you're a passive aggressive person in your real life, you may unleash on the internet with no real risk of actual confrontation. You can type away and edit and type and erase and type and hit enter after you've read it a million times and it's just right and there are essentially no repercussions...except that weird hollow feeling in your soul because you just have to check back in to see if someone has replied to your virtual argument. Yeah, I've been there too often. I think it's this false sense of connection that makes people comfortable over-sharing, about kids, pets, bowel movements, whatever. I wonder how many people would even bother with facebook if they got rid of the "like" button...?
Leigh Hewett August 24, 2012 at 03:22 pm
LOL!
Deanna Allen (Editor) August 24, 2012 at 04:59 pm
I have a slightly large posterior and I would be happier if it was from spending too much time on Facebook. That would mean I could get rid of some of that excess. Unfortunately for me, it's genetics. *Sigh*
Racer X August 24, 2012 at 07:00 pm
Kind of hard to fight genetics. Most people with big butts have over-active pie holes :-)
Wallflower August 24, 2012 at 09:05 pm
"When people are on Facebook, they are sitting on their butts, often eating M&Ms or cookies."
"98% of people who spend more than an hour each day on Facebook likely have large butts. " Mike, I'm sure you are smarter than you sound. Were you snacking while making 110+ posts on patch sites so far this month? Were you exercising or mowing your lawn or turning wrenches while posting? Or were you... wait for it... sitting on your butt?? Are you using the patch sites in moderation, or are you obsessed with them? Patch is a forum for communication, like facebook. But this is one that YOU are interested in, so that's OK.
Larry Reid August 24, 2012 at 09:24 pm
Excellent point Karen B. Come clean Mike. ARE YOU FAT?
R++ One of the Famous Dacula Crew August 24, 2012 at 09:26 pm
And any “significant others” that actually wish to remain alive will RUN!
Crystal Huskey (Editor) August 24, 2012 at 09:31 pm
I believe we might be over-sharing... LOL
R++ One of the Famous Dacula Crew August 24, 2012 at 09:31 pm
This post above is the internet equivalent of taking a walk on the wild side…
( Kids -Don't try this at home. If Mike does survive, it’s because his was done on Closed Course)
Wallflower August 24, 2012 at 09:33 pm
I did not state nor imply that Mike is fat.
Larry Reid August 24, 2012 at 10:09 pm
Ooooh. My bad. Scratch that Mike.
Racer X August 25, 2012 at 03:25 am
6'4" 190lbs. No fat here. I spend 15 minutes a day on Patch. Moderation is the key to everything, especially Facebook. Now, go have yourselves some ice cream and check to see if anybody liked your latest pictures before you turn in :-)

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